We Rounded Up 21 Self-Care Gifts for New Moms, so You Don’t Have To

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Let’s face it: Moms are stressed. New mothers are faced with the challenges of adjusting to motherhood, which may include feelings of isolation, being overwhelmed, and lacking confidence in the demands of caring for a baby.

Seasoned mothers are just as stressed: In 2023, 33 percent of parents with children under the age of 13 reported high levels of stress, whereas only 20 percent of nonparents did.

That’s why we’re suggesting that you gift the new mother in your life something to boost her self-care repertoire.

As a new mother myself, some of my favorite postpartum gifts weren’t for the baby. They were for me. Even if it seemed frivolous to be gifted a coffee cup or a weighted blanket, it made those rare moments when I could enjoy them all the more special. In honor of Mother’s Day, we present the best self-care gifts for the new mamas in your life

Soothe Her Nerves

First stop on amping up her self-care routine? Finding ways to soothe her nerves. 

Bearaby Chunky Knit Weighted Blanket

$199 at Amazon
A weighted blanket isn’t just a cozy invention that approximates the feeling of a hefty cat lying on your lap. It’s actually a tool that can be helpful in reducing anxiety.

We love this chunky knit blanket by Bearaby. It’s made of organic cotton, helps keep you cool while you rest, and is aesthetically pleasing.

Vitruvi Stone Diffuser

$97.49 at Amazon
$129.99Now 25% Off
Fill her home with soothing essential oil scents from a simple diffuser. We love the Vitruvi diffuser because it has a gorgeous vessel and can run intermittently for up to eight hours. Stumped about which scent to start with? Lavender essential oil has been shown in studies to help decrease symptoms of anxiety, so you can’t go wrong there.

watercolor workbook for flower paintings

Emily Lex Studio Flowers Watercolor Workbook

Art therapy is known to decrease stress and its wide-ranging negative health effects.

With this in mind, we love the idea of a watercolor workbook to bring some art therapy into her home. This spiral-bound book from Emily Lex Studio offers step-by-step instructions to help adults master the basics of watercoloring.
candle

Flamingo Estate Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle

The trenches of new motherhood don’t allow much time to enjoy frolicking through bountiful gardens. This peppery tomato-scented candle can make her feel like she’s dining on a terrace in Italy. Who knows, it may even inspire a new gardening hobby she can explore with the whole family.

Bodum Electric Water Kettle

$39 at Amazon
$55Now 29% Off

A nice tea kettle is essential for motherhood. Whether it’s used for mixing formula with hot water to avoid any irksome clumps, a late-night cup of tea, or an early morning pour-over coffee, this kettle will get the job done. Plus, it’s also easy on the eyes, making it a perfect addition to a countertop that may otherwise feel cluttered. We love the price point on this one too.

Give Her Some Moments of Comfort

So much of motherhood is focused on comforting others — rubbing aching bellies, wrapping arms around tired bodies, and kissing sore bruises. It is time for her to feel some TLC. 
Turkish cotton plush bath towels black stripes

Brooklinen Super-Plush Turkish Cotton Bath Towels

It isn’t uncommon for a new mother to admit she can’t remember the last time she showered. With limited time, there isn’t much of an opening for bath bombs or exfoliating scrubs. Instead, give her a fresh set of plush towels. Even a quick five-minute shower will feel luxe with these Brooklinen ones.
Nutritional food program subscription

Sakara Nutrition Program Subscription

Nutrient-dense foods are essential for all moms, regardless of their stage of motherhood. Sakara’s nutrition program subscription is an excellent way to make sure she has healthy snacks and light meals ready to munch on throughout the day. Just a heads-up — Sakara’s program isn’t the heartiest, so it’s best for moms who like to graze throughout the day.

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug

$129.95 at Amazon

As a lifelong caffeine lover, I always wondered how someone could leave their cup unfinished in the morning. Or worse, resort to microwaving their stale morning cup at 3 p.m. Then, I became a mother and realized sometimes there isn’t even time to enjoy a hot cup of joe. Fortunately, this temperature-controlled smart mug from Ember keeps your coffee warm all day long, while prioritizing a fresh taste.

Moon Juice Magnesi-Om

$44 at Amazon

Every new mother has been given the classic advice to sleep when the baby sleeps. What no one seems to appreciate, however, is how hard it can be to sleep on demand. This magnesium powder from Moon Juice allows quick relaxation and promises deep sleep with no grogginess — perfect for that midday post-feeding nap.

bone colored linen bath robe

Parachute Cloud Cotton Robe

When the baby is crying and mom needs to run and get him right after a shower, this robe will help her feel refreshed and comfortable. It is also cozy for midnight breastfeeding sessions, early morning snuggles, and everything in between.

Mental Health Is Key

Perinatal depression, which is a mood disorder that can occur during pregnancy and up to one year after birth, impacts just over 14 percent of mothers.

Sure, there are plenty of jokes and uncomfortable truths about the sacrifices mothers make. That doesn’t mean we should normalize mothers sacrificing their mental health. Here are some things that will help her put her emotional well-being first.
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Therapy Sessions at WellQor

WellQor is an online therapy platform that accepts insurance, specializes in a variety of issues, including postpartum depression, and has a range of modalities, including trauma-focused eye movement desensitization reprocessing. Consider prepaying for her to enjoy a batch of sessions.

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Headspace Membership

Mindfulness is an evidence-based practice that can help mitigate symptoms of postpartum depression, and Headspace offers a library of guided meditations to help mom cope.

You can gift the mom in your life a three-month or one-year subscription, which comes with more than 1,000 guided meditations, plenty of sleep resources, mindful parenting resources, and more.
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Range by Kara Duval Membership

Exercise can decrease symptoms of postpartum depression, which is fantastic.

However, it can be a touchy subject as well. With all the changes the body undergoes during pregnancy and after, there can be unhealthy societal pressure to “bounce back,” meaning return to your prebaby body as if you didn’t just birth an entire human and undergo one of the most physically challenging experiences a woman can have. Range by Kara Duval offers a library of thousands of workouts and is very body-positive. That means not a single one of her workouts uses language centered around the body looking a certain way. Instead, it’s all about feeling good. There are postpartum-friendly workouts and even a series focused on pelvic floor health.
black leggings

Mate the Label Organic Cotton Leggings

Something comfy to wear is always important, but it’s especially crucial for new moms. She might want to slip these leggings on for a mommy-and-me yoga class — or she may enjoy simply having something that isn’t restrictive to wear every day. The breathable cotton material of these leggings is the cherry on top.
a mat for standing

Stakt Mat

The Stakt mat offers a cute solution to many new mama problems. For example, her house may be cluttered with baby toys, and a yoga mat might be cumbersome to store. Or repeated kneeling during tummy time could be wreaking havoc on her knees. Stakt is available in several aesthetically pleasing colors that likely match many nursery color schemes, and it even folds up into a small rectangle that doubles as a plush cushion.

Something From the Littles

A small sentimental something from the kids is bound to bring a smile to her face. Help the little ones choose their favorite gift from our picks below to make their mama’s heart melt.
custom drawing of mother with children

Mommy and Me Line Portrait

A watercolor portrait of her and her children is something she will cherish forever — but it can prove tricky and expensive to commission an artist for the task. This is where Letterfest’s Mommy and Me Line Portrait comes into play. You select the size of the portrait you’d like, the skin tone, background, and number of people in the frame. Next, you upload the photo you’d like illustrated. Then, you check out and wait for her custom piece of art to arrive. It’s never been easier to make her smile.

‘Crumbs: Cookies and Sweets From Around the World’ Cookbook

$32.32 at Amazon
$49.95Now 35% Off

Gifting a cookbook isn’t about her adding cooking as another task to her laundry list of duties. Instead, it is an opportunity to make memories together in the kitchen. Pro tip: Make her a treat from the cookbook with the little ones, and when she opens the gift, tell her the story of the family coming together to surprise Mom.

wood bedside tray

Breakfast-in-Bed Tray

Nothing feels more luxurious than breakfast in bed. This cute tray is perfect for balancing eggs, bacon, and hot coffee. Plus, you can keep it on hand so you can spoil her with a surprise meal in bed whenever you get the chance (that kind of pampering doesn’t need to be exclusive to Mother’s Day, after all).

Los Angeles–based licensed marriage and family therapist Natalie Moore suggests that, before purchasing this kind of gift, “Ask her … if that’s how she wants to spend her [Mother’s Day] morning. She might prefer to sleep in or have [some quiet time] to herself.” If you don’t want to spoil any surprises, we suggest casually bringing up the topic a few weeks in advance to see what her preference is.

Things She’ll Cherish Forever

Purchasing things that will last a lifetime isn’t just beautiful for her — it’s also wonderful for the family members who will enjoy these trinkets as they’re passed down the line.
gold locket

Catbird Heirloom Locket

A gold locket designed to last for the ages is the perfect gift. You can tuck a photo of her and her child inside and opt to get the little one’s initials on the front of the locket. It is a thoughtful piece of jewelry she will surely pass down for generations to come.
Custom photo album

Artifact Uprising Custom Photo Album

Many mothers have aspirations of scrapbooking their family’s stories. Yet this project can fall by the wayside when there are sticky hands that need to be washed and bedtime stories that need to be read. Take the task off her hands by making her a photo album she can look back on — we love this one from Artifact Uprising.

customizable journal with green and gold hardcover

Mom’s Story Keepsake Book

Similar to their dreams of scrapbooking, many moms aspire to create a keepsake journal full of their motherhood milestones. From reflecting on what she feels proud of as a mother to preserving photos of special moments, the Mom’s Story Keepsake Book from Colored Organics makes documenting all the little moments easier than ever.

FAQs

What are some free ways to support self-care for the mothers in my life?
It isn’t just about lavishing them with gifts — it’s also about giving them the space and energy to breathe and just be. “Give her a ‘no mental load’ day where you plan the kids’ activities, do all the house chores, and let her do her own thing,” Moore says. She explains that moms don’t just need a break from the to-do list: They also need a break from all the mental labor that goes into making the to-do list.

If you’re experiencing postpartum depression, Moore says that you probably experience more low-mood days than not and no longer get the same mood boost from things you used to love. You might struggle to bond with your baby or even experience disturbing thoughts, like thinking that your family would be better off without you. Additionally, if sleep doesn’t improve how you’re feeling, it’s likely not related to sleep deprivation. If you think you might have a postpartum mental health concern, seek out extra support from your medical care team and get screened for postpartum depression. Maternal Mental Health Now is a great place to start.

Postpartum depression doesn’t just manifest as feeling extremely low and having disturbing thoughts. “Ever heard of mom rage? It’s not just a trending topic. It can be a hallmark symptom of postpartum depression,” explains Moore. Feeling overwhelmed or having a sense of brain fog, in addition to the previously mentioned symptoms, can also be signs of postpartum depression.

Postpartum anxiety can have both physical and psychological symptoms. Moore says that some physical signs of postpartum anxiety include tension in your body, difficulty sleeping, a racing heart, nausea, and dizziness. Psychologically, you might be worrying constantly about your baby and dreading accepting help with baby care from anyone else. “Another telltale sign of postpartum anxiety is trying to control your baby’s environment,” she says. Obsessively tracking your baby’s schedule, clinging to certain objects to provide you relief (like that one sleep sack you’re convinced your baby needs to sleep), and searching for predictability in the midst of chaos can all sound pretty normal, but they can actually be signs of postpartum anxiety.

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Julia Childs Heyl, MSW

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Julia Childs Heyl, MSW, is a California-based clinical social worker and mental health writer. Her writing often focuses on mental health disparities and uses critical race theory as her preferred theoretical framework. She has been published by Verywell Mind, Health, Parents, Shape, Yahoo, and more.

In her clinical work, Julia specializes in treating people of color experiencing anxiety, depression, and trauma through depth therapy and EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) trauma therapy. Identifying as a holistic-minded clinician, Julia views mental health as a relationship between the soul, self, and systemic structures in our lives. Her formative training includes developing mental health programming specifically for Black survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault and conducting research on generational trauma within the Black community.

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Justin Laube, MD, is a board-certified integrative and internal medicine physician, a teacher, and a consultant with extensive expertise in integrative health, medical education, and trauma healing.

He graduated with a bachelor's in biology from the University of Wisconsin and a medical degree from the University of Minnesota Medical School. During medical school, he completed a graduate certificate in integrative therapies and healing practices through the Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality & Healing. He completed his three-year residency training in internal medicine at the University of California in Los Angeles on the primary care track and a two-year fellowship in integrative East-West primary care at the UCLA Health Center for East-West Medicine.

He is currently taking a multiyear personal and professional sabbatical to explore the relationship between childhood trauma, disease, and the processes of healing. He is developing a clinical practice for patients with complex trauma, as well as for others going through significant life transitions. He is working on a book distilling the insights from his sabbatical, teaching, and leading retreats on trauma, integrative health, mindfulness, and well-being for health professionals, students, and the community.

Previously, Dr. Laube was an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA Health Center for East-West Medicine and the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA, where he provided primary care and integrative East-West medical consultations. As part of the faculty, he completed a medical education fellowship and received a certificate in innovation in curriculum design and evaluation. He was the fellowship director at the Center for East-West Medicine and led courses for physician fellows, residents, and medical students.

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