We Rounded Up 21 Self-Care Gifts for New Moms, so You Don’t Have To
As a new mother myself, some of my favorite postpartum gifts weren’t for the baby. They were for me. Even if it seemed frivolous to be gifted a coffee cup or a weighted blanket, it made those rare moments when I could enjoy them all the more special. In honor of Mother’s Day, we present the best self-care gifts for the new mamas in your life
Soothe Her Nerves

Bearaby Chunky Knit Weighted Blanket

Vitruvi Stone Diffuser

Emily Lex Studio Flowers Watercolor Workbook

Flamingo Estate Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle
The trenches of new motherhood don’t allow much time to enjoy frolicking through bountiful gardens. This peppery tomato-scented candle can make her feel like she’s dining on a terrace in Italy. Who knows, it may even inspire a new gardening hobby she can explore with the whole family.

Bodum Electric Water Kettle
A nice tea kettle is essential for motherhood. Whether it’s used for mixing formula with hot water to avoid any irksome clumps, a late-night cup of tea, or an early morning pour-over coffee, this kettle will get the job done. Plus, it’s also easy on the eyes, making it a perfect addition to a countertop that may otherwise feel cluttered. We love the price point on this one too.
Give Her Some Moments of Comfort

Brooklinen Super-Plush Turkish Cotton Bath Towels

Sakara Nutrition Program Subscription
Nutrient-dense foods are essential for all moms, regardless of their stage of motherhood. Sakara’s nutrition program subscription is an excellent way to make sure she has healthy snacks and light meals ready to munch on throughout the day. Just a heads-up — Sakara’s program isn’t the heartiest, so it’s best for moms who like to graze throughout the day.

Ember Temperature Control Smart Mug
As a lifelong caffeine lover, I always wondered how someone could leave their cup unfinished in the morning. Or worse, resort to microwaving their stale morning cup at 3 p.m. Then, I became a mother and realized sometimes there isn’t even time to enjoy a hot cup of joe. Fortunately, this temperature-controlled smart mug from Ember keeps your coffee warm all day long, while prioritizing a fresh taste.

Moon Juice Magnesi-Om
Every new mother has been given the classic advice to sleep when the baby sleeps. What no one seems to appreciate, however, is how hard it can be to sleep on demand. This magnesium powder from Moon Juice allows quick relaxation and promises deep sleep with no grogginess — perfect for that midday post-feeding nap.

Parachute Cloud Cotton Robe
Mental Health Is Key

Therapy Sessions at WellQor
WellQor is an online therapy platform that accepts insurance, specializes in a variety of issues, including postpartum depression, and has a range of modalities, including trauma-focused eye movement desensitization reprocessing. Consider prepaying for her to enjoy a batch of sessions.

Headspace Membership

Range by Kara Duval Membership

Mate the Label Organic Cotton Leggings

Stakt Mat
Something From the Littles

Mommy and Me Line Portrait

‘Crumbs: Cookies and Sweets From Around the World’ Cookbook
Gifting a cookbook isn’t about her adding cooking as another task to her laundry list of duties. Instead, it is an opportunity to make memories together in the kitchen. Pro tip: Make her a treat from the cookbook with the little ones, and when she opens the gift, tell her the story of the family coming together to surprise Mom.

Breakfast-in-Bed Tray
Nothing feels more luxurious than breakfast in bed. This cute tray is perfect for balancing eggs, bacon, and hot coffee. Plus, you can keep it on hand so you can spoil her with a surprise meal in bed whenever you get the chance (that kind of pampering doesn’t need to be exclusive to Mother’s Day, after all).
Los Angeles–based licensed marriage and family therapist Natalie Moore suggests that, before purchasing this kind of gift, “Ask her … if that’s how she wants to spend her [Mother’s Day] morning. She might prefer to sleep in or have [some quiet time] to herself.” If you don’t want to spoil any surprises, we suggest casually bringing up the topic a few weeks in advance to see what her preference is.
Things She’ll Cherish Forever

Catbird Heirloom Locket

Artifact Uprising Custom Photo Album
Many mothers have aspirations of scrapbooking their family’s stories. Yet this project can fall by the wayside when there are sticky hands that need to be washed and bedtime stories that need to be read. Take the task off her hands by making her a photo album she can look back on — we love this one from Artifact Uprising.

Mom’s Story Keepsake Book
Similar to their dreams of scrapbooking, many moms aspire to create a keepsake journal full of their motherhood milestones. From reflecting on what she feels proud of as a mother to preserving photos of special moments, the Mom’s Story Keepsake Book from Colored Organics makes documenting all the little moments easier than ever.
FAQs
If you’re experiencing postpartum depression, Moore says that you probably experience more low-mood days than not and no longer get the same mood boost from things you used to love. You might struggle to bond with your baby or even experience disturbing thoughts, like thinking that your family would be better off without you. Additionally, if sleep doesn’t improve how you’re feeling, it’s likely not related to sleep deprivation. If you think you might have a postpartum mental health concern, seek out extra support from your medical care team and get screened for postpartum depression. Maternal Mental Health Now is a great place to start.
Postpartum depression doesn’t just manifest as feeling extremely low and having disturbing thoughts. “Ever heard of mom rage? It’s not just a trending topic. It can be a hallmark symptom of postpartum depression,” explains Moore. Feeling overwhelmed or having a sense of brain fog, in addition to the previously mentioned symptoms, can also be signs of postpartum depression.
Postpartum anxiety can have both physical and psychological symptoms. Moore says that some physical signs of postpartum anxiety include tension in your body, difficulty sleeping, a racing heart, nausea, and dizziness. Psychologically, you might be worrying constantly about your baby and dreading accepting help with baby care from anyone else. “Another telltale sign of postpartum anxiety is trying to control your baby’s environment,” she says. Obsessively tracking your baby’s schedule, clinging to certain objects to provide you relief (like that one sleep sack you’re convinced your baby needs to sleep), and searching for predictability in the midst of chaos can all sound pretty normal, but they can actually be signs of postpartum anxiety.
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In her clinical work, Julia specializes in treating people of color experiencing anxiety, depression, and trauma through depth therapy and EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) trauma therapy. Identifying as a holistic-minded clinician, Julia views mental health as a relationship between the soul, self, and systemic structures in our lives. Her formative training includes developing mental health programming specifically for Black survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault and conducting research on generational trauma within the Black community.

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He graduated with a bachelor's in biology from the University of Wisconsin and a medical degree from the University of Minnesota Medical School. During medical school, he completed a graduate certificate in integrative therapies and healing practices through the Earl E. Bakken Center for Spirituality & Healing. He completed his three-year residency training in internal medicine at the University of California in Los Angeles on the primary care track and a two-year fellowship in integrative East-West primary care at the UCLA Health Center for East-West Medicine.
He is currently taking a multiyear personal and professional sabbatical to explore the relationship between childhood trauma, disease, and the processes of healing. He is developing a clinical practice for patients with complex trauma, as well as for others going through significant life transitions. He is working on a book distilling the insights from his sabbatical, teaching, and leading retreats on trauma, integrative health, mindfulness, and well-being for health professionals, students, and the community.
Previously, Dr. Laube was an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA Health Center for East-West Medicine and the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA, where he provided primary care and integrative East-West medical consultations. As part of the faculty, he completed a medical education fellowship and received a certificate in innovation in curriculum design and evaluation. He was the fellowship director at the Center for East-West Medicine and led courses for physician fellows, residents, and medical students.

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