I’m a Stressed-Out Mom of 5 — Here’s How the Calm App Helped

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Throughout my life, multiple therapists have told me that meditation could be a helpful antidote to my high anxiety and stress levels. However, each time, a little voice in my head has said, “Ha! Sure ...” before inserting excuses about why it wouldn’t happen — from “I have no time” to “I don’t know how” to “I’m not good at it” and even “It’s definitely not going to help.” Still, given how highly recommended the practice is, I was curious to try Calm, the popular mental health, mindfulness, and sleep app, to see if it could help me change my mind.

The app’s toolkit includes multimedia options such as looking at calming images of nature, listening to bedtime stories, relaxing to soothing soundtracks, and doing guided meditations. In addition to offering a vast library of recordings to engage with, the app also features customized lifestyle recommendations based on an individual’s needs, such as increasing happiness and self-esteem or improving stress levels, performance, or sleep.

Using your phone to cultivate presence and well-being may seem counterintuitive. However, it might be ideal for tech-savvy Gen Zers, who are used to navigating technology in many aspects of their lives. Considering that one in two people between the ages of 18 and 24 reports feeling anxious or depressed (compared with one in three in the overall population), it’s the younger generation that may benefit the most from an app like Calm.

That being said, I’m 38, and I think the app could help anyone from any age group, so I put it to the test myself.

I used Calm for three weeks to see if its multiple means of meditation could help me reduce my stress levels as a busy working mom with five little kids. I was surprised at how much it helped me — and my kids.

Calm at a Glance

Pros

  • Offers a wide variety of mindfulness methods of varying lengths
  • Includes kid-centered mindfulness content
  • Option to track your feelings and progress through self-reporting, including “mood check-ins” and a “feelings wheel”
  • Notifications encourage self-care

Cons

  • Free option of the app lacks content
  • App’s many options may overwhelm some

How Much Does Calm Cost?

Though reports vary, the average American spends close to $400 on mental healthcare per month, which may include the cost of app subscriptions and counseling sessions. A yearly subscription to Calm is $69.99. Customers also have the option of purchasing a lifelong subscription for $399.99. Fortunately, before you make a significant financial commitment like this, Calm offers a free weeklong trial subscription to test the app’s services.

Calm also offers an affordable family membership plan for $99.99 per year, allowing for up to six accounts (which isn’t limited to people living in your household). All account members must be 18 years or older, and each individual on the account gets their own log-in, meaning their mindfulness sessions and activities are only visible to them. The app also has kid-friendly content, but parents must sign up for their kids.

Additionally, Calm partners with a number of businesses to provide access to anywhere for between 5 and 500 employees. In this case, the cost varies, and it may even be offered to employees free of charge, depending on the business.

Calm isn’t covered by insurance, but some customers may be able to use funds from their health savings account or flexible spending account to pay for it, depending on their plan. To see if your plan is eligible, contact your plan overseer directly.

Signing Up

Calm app green screenshot

Signing up for Calm is a straightforward process. The app prompted me to enter my name and payment information up front, although I would also have been able to sign up for a free seven-day trial. I noted that, in that case, they would automatically charge me for a one-year subscription once the free trial ended. The subscription would also automatically renew every year unless I cancel.

Once the app collected and verified my billing information, I set up my credentials, including username and password. The app then presented me with questions about how I planned to use it, and I completed a self-evaluation of my overall feelings and emotions. While the app has a mental health focus, it’s not for those with a mental health emergency or a severe condition, and it is not a replacement for therapy.

Using the App

My experience with the Calm app includes both benefits and drawbacks. At times, I wondered if the practice was really helping, but other times, I felt confident that I’d want to keep using functions like the sleep stories and guided meditations for years.

As I got more comfortable navigating the app, I discovered which programs and recordings motivated and energized me versus which ones calmed me down. After three weeks of testing, I’m happy to say that I will continue using it well into the future, both for myself and my kids, who benefited from bedtime stories on the app. (If you have kids, note that they need a grown-up to sign up.)

Navigating the App

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When I started using the app, it gave me guiding prompts for setting goals based on answers from my self-evaluation, such my desire to reduce anxiety and get more sleep. From there, it suggested next steps to take on the app, which I appreciated. However, as I continued using the app, I became overwhelmed with all of the options I could try next.

While Calm’s multitude of offerings was tricky for me to navigate, I would still say it’s a good feature overall. I imagine many people appreciate the many options and lack of structure. Calm offers users the freedom to choose what works best for them at their will, and I never felt pressured to try a new activity that I wasn’t interested in.

Sleep Stories

True to its name, I found the Calm App to have a calming effect. I suffer from moderate insomnia and sometimes have trouble sleeping, but when I use Calm before bed, I often fall asleep during its guided meditations more quickly than when I try to fall asleep on my own. In fact, within the sleep stories library is a prerecorded bedtime story read by Outlander star Sam Heughan that lulled me to sleep and made me feel like a kid again.

The app helped me improve my overall bedtime routine. I’d previously disregarded the research-backed claim that great sleep hygiene promotes better mental health; however, by incorporating soothing activities before bed with Calm, I experienced the benefits firsthand.

Practicing good sleep hygiene includes engaging in calming activities, such as listening to stories before bed instead of scrolling mindlessly or staring at a phone screen. It’s also helpful to avoid caffeinated beverages in the afternoon and evening, as well as strenuous exercise or big meals before bed.

Gratitude Practices

The interactive presleep gratitude exercise was a great way to unwind and quiet my spiraling and anxious thoughts. Reflecting on the enjoyable moments of my day helped me relax in gratitude and primed me for a good night’s sleep. The connection between gratitude practices, reduced anxiety, and better sleep is well-researched. In one study, participants benefited from 15 minutes of practicing gratitude daily, five days per week, for at least six weeks. The researchers theorized that an ongoing gratitude practice may lead to a permanent change in perspective and improved mental health.

Special Programs

Another program I enjoyed within the app was “Daily Jay” with Jay Shetty, a bestselling author, award-winning podcaster, purpose-driven entrepreneur, and former monk. I opted to use his brief program shortly after I woke up, and it helped to put me in a positive mindset for the day. He shares how to practice moments of stillness during the day’s busy hustle. He also offers other activities, including a wind-down body scan before bed. (Overall, I used the app most often for a presleep wind-down.)

Goal Tracking

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Some of Calm’s activities help users meet certain goals, so it can be a great tool for someone looking for a way to stay accountable. For example, suppose one of your goals is to relieve stress and anxiety. The app will suggest multiple activities under sections like “mindful activities” and “quick and easy actions,” such as taking a hot shower or softening tension through a one-minute body scan.

On the flip side, however, these suggestions may worsen stress for users who feel like the app is just adding to their daily “to-do” list.

I liked the quick and easy practices the app suggested, and it gave me more tools, other than just breathing, that I could use to self-regulate in a stressful situation. Once I became even more familiar with the exercises, I was able to do these things more readily in daily life without even checking the app. The more you use the app, the less frequently you end up needing it later.

Kids Features

As a mom, I was thrilled to see Calm’s offerings for kids. I tested multiple programs with my kids, including bedtime stories featuring characters like the Minions and Winnie the Pooh. I appreciated that various story lengths were available, many of which corresponded with my kids’ typical wind-down time of 10 to 15 minutes before getting sleepy. Several of my kids, ages 10 down to 2, fell asleep listening to it, making it a great tool for siblings of different ages. The app has some target age ranges grouped together, such as ages 7 to 10, ages 11 to 13, and so on. The app helped my kids unwind from their busy lives and calm their bodies far better than screen time.

Calm also provides kids with anxiety-reducing activities, helping them to calm down throughout the day through introductory mindfulness education and practices such as breathing, which you can also discuss with your pediatrician at their next well-visit if you need additional guidance.

Other Services

While I did not test it, Calm is also the developer of Calm Health, a mental health platform that is separate from Calm itself. Calm Health offers mental health programs and resources, including self-diagnostic tools such as questionnaires, to see if you may be suffering from depression or anxiety. Patients can use Calm Health after being referred or invited by a provider, health insurance company, or employer. According to the company, Calm Health is most effective when used as a supplement to therapy.

The company also launched an app for Calm Health in 2022. This app is limited to certain health insurance plans and focuses on mental health management and psychologist-written, evidence-based plans for specific mental health diagnoses. These programs include cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and acceptance and commitment therapy, which studies find can be beneficial for mental health.

The Calm Health app also includes the most popular exercises and content from the Calm app.

Canceling Calm

There are simple in-app steps to cancel your membership under Account Settings. However, if you are part of a Calm Premium Family Plan, only the family administrator who initiated signing up for the account can do this.

If you’re coming up on the end of a free seven-day trial and don’t want to continue to a membership, you should aim to cancel at least 24 hours before the end of the trial so that you are not charged for a year’s membership.

How Does the Calm App Compare to Other Mindset and Meditation Apps?

Calm App is a one-stop shop for numerous mindfulness recordings and well-being offerings. There are similar apps out there, though they differ in content. Like Calm, Headspace is a mindfulness app that costs $69.99 annually. However, Headspace is different because it has more structured lessons that teach people of all levels to meditate. Like Calm, it has content to help people sleep, including audio tracks with ambient sounds and narratives, but not Calm’s celebrity-narrated sleep stories. Like Calm, Headspace offers music for focus and relaxation and content geared toward younger kids, though Calm provides a more flexible, user-driven experience across the board.

Project Healthy Minds is another comparable app, although unlike Calm, it’s completely free. It’s rooted in neuroscience, and its podcast-style mindfulness lessons, meditations, and check-ins aim to help people develop focus, calm, and resiliency through meditation training. Calm has a larger library and more offerings, but Project Healthy Minds features a structured step-by-step process designed to train your mind to be healthier.

Smiling Minds is another free mindfulness app. It has similarities to Calm, with offerings such as meditations, meditation lessons, and soundscapes. Both apps have content for kids, adolescents, and adults, allowing users to track their moods. The apps differ in that Calm is a commercial app that focuses on relaxation, sleep, and stress reduction, whereas Smiling Minds is an Australian nonprofit mental fitness app rooted in psychology, with a strong focus on mental health and education for young people and adults. Smiling Mind caters to kids, teens, families, and educators, whereas Calm is for everyone.

Happier is a mindfulness app that is similar to Calm in that it’s free to try for a week, but it has an annual subscription price $99, which is pricier than Calm. Unlike Calm’s broad variety of meditations, sleep stories, and breathing exercises, Happier offers short daily “happiness workouts.” Happier’s content and meditations focus on positive psychology, whereas Calm’s focus more on relaxation and sleep. Happier’s users have monthly mood check-ins to better tailor the app’s content to their needs; Calm users can choose recordings from different categories, but the app is less personalized overall.

Price
Format
Best For
Kids content?
Free 7-day trial; $69.99 a year
Guided meditations, celebrity-narrated sleep stories, breathing exercises, gentle movement, soundscapes, music for sleep or focus, daily mood check-ins, kids’ content
Adults and kids who can’t sleep, people who need help relaxing, and people who like a less structured, big audio library
Yes
Free 7-day or 14-day trial; $69.99 a year
Course-based meditation, sleep music, mindful movement, mindfulness explainer videos, music for focus, kids’ content
People who want structured tools to learn how to meditate, shorter goal-based sessions, and movement content
Yes
Free
Podcast-style lessons, seated and active meditations, and well-being assessments
People who want research-backed neuroscience practices and free, quality content
No
Free
Age-specific programming for kids, teens, and adults; content designed for classrooms, families, workplaces, and educators; mental fitness activities and mood tracking
Families, children, educators, therapists, and people who want a free app
Yes
Free 7-day trial; $99.99 a year
Happiness-focused meditations, goal-oriented content based on monthly check-ins, mental happiness workouts, classes, and podcasts
Positive psychology fans, people who want to increase happiness, and people who want a goal-oriented and structured happiness journey
No

My Final Thoughts

Overall, I found Calm to be beneficial to my mental health. I recommend the app to a wide variety of people, including stressed adults, kids (with parental supervision and a discussion with their pediatrician), and anyone who wants to learn more about mindfulness and meditation. I found the app to be helpful even when I could only fit my mindfulness practice in for a short time between meetings or at bedtime, so you shouldn’t feel pressured to use it daily.

While Calm’s numerous resources and offerings can be overwhelming if you’re not sure where to start, I still think a subscription is worth the investment — possibly even the lifelong membership option — because I can see myself wanting (or needing) to use the app more or less frequently over time based on circumstances. The app has so many types of meditation and audio to choose from, you can benefit from it at any time in your life, such as when you or your kids can’t fall asleep, or if you’re feeling stressed and want some guided audio to bring you back to feeling centered.

However, if you aren’t a fan of apps but want to reduce your stress levels, you can practice mindfulness independently. If you’re just learning to meditate, the app can be a fantastic starting point to teach you how, so that you can practice in the future with or without the app.

What if I’m Having Thoughts of Harming Myself?

If you or a loved one is experiencing significant distress, domestic violence, or having thoughts about suicide and needs support, call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7. If you need immediate help, call 911.

FAQs About Calm App

Is the Calm App the same as therapy?

Although the app may improve someone’s well-being, it isn’t meant to replace therapy. Calm’s FAQ clearly states: “Calm Health is designed to supplement other forms of support and is not intended as a substitute for care by a physician, therapist, or other physical or mental health care provider.”

You can download the Calm App for free and access some meditation courses, breath-work exercises, and mood check-ins. However, most of the content on the app is available only to paid subscribers. You can try a seven-day free trial before purchasing a subscription.
The Calm app is open to everyone and focuses on mindfulness, sleep, relaxation, and general well-being. Calm Health is available for sponsored members via health insurance plans, employers, or physician care teams, and it is a more personalized resource for various health and mental health needs. It offers webinars and written resources on mental health for individuals and those in the workplace. All Calm Health members take a mental health screening, and based on their answers, they are given mental health resources rooted in cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, or acceptance and commitment therapy.

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